Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more %A]?5J)Bi
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between Ct
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. CrvL[ 6i
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ; 7;=)/-
to achieve your financial goal eventually. !+<OED=qe
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I eUY/H1
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." G)(vd
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the -k4w$0)
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors qdss(LZ
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? >g
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And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property ][gr(-6 8
for long term investment is not a bad idea. .el&\Jt
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to N9 SC
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persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you A
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as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that n8FmIo Z&`
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once %a'Nf/9=:
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and C
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deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM @pV~Q2%
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest a/@F? \A
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or [osI Q!u;:
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that E}YJGFB7"
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) V:YN!
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too jyLE
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or E~4d6~s
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
