Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more /267Q;d
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between y->
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. 7u(i4O&
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able U3QnWPt}>
to achieve your financial goal eventually. Sn,z$-;h;
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ;RY KqUE
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." XsC bA8Qv
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the x]M1UBnMN
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors Ld L\B0^l
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? %stktVDAP
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property DKH9
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for long term investment is not a bad idea. V19*~v=u
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to Cm>F5$l{
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you woKdI)f $
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that 4
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house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ^u74WN
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and YG|T;/-
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM .})8gL7 V
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest
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and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or pq`MO
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close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that R&p5 3n
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) >?V->7QLP
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too N"{o3QmA
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or $P~ a
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
