Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between W|)GV0YM
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. @%6)^]m}
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able \hs/D+MCk
to achieve your financial goal eventually. 9{_8cpm4
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ]i-P-9PA4
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." _*O7l
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the S 5uJX#*;
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors Z5((1J9
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? {eEBrJJ eB
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property rHvF%o
for long term investment is not a bad idea. EkN_8(w
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to WMW1B }Z3
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you p86~~rvq[
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that LtC~)R
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once FoE|J s
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and >%-H j6%
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM &Fw[YGJayz
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest 60xa?8<cg
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or K@B" ]6
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that JZ `>|<W
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) *8z"^7?^=
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much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or TqI AWbb&
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
