Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more th9 0O|;
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between _[0I^o
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. -rRz@Cr
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able N& ,"kRFFo
to achieve your financial goal eventually. v'$yk Z!Z
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I S}
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agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." sH F%=V
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the >!<V\
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house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors gvK"*aIj
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? T5V$wmB\W
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property ',%5mF3j
for long term investment is not a bad idea. @@; 1%z
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to J:[3;Z
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you xNx`J@xt$
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that | 4%
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house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ?Cc $]
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and 8m
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deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM :g/{(#E@Z
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest lvG3<ls0K$
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or + f 6}p
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that D STx#*
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) vo.EM 1x
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too %K`4
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much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 1k`|[l^
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
