Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more )575JY `6K
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between 1@&i
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. e/pZLj]M
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able @a08*"lbp
to achieve your financial goal eventually. 8X6F6RK6,1
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I _vQtV]
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." W 6_~.m"b
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the z|w @eQ",
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors <5 R`E(
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? 1Na*7|
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property 3D)gy9T&l
for long term investment is not a bad idea. C%$:Oq
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to 2S~cW./#fX
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you :^c ' P<HM
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that q q%\
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once #kO.'oIl
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and wABaNB=9;
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM )20jZm*
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest PSOW}Y|q
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or FT
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close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that K.y2 $b/
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) w4m -DR5
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too =J2\"6BnzA
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 9 ~
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
