Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more f:K3 P[|
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between }vof| (Yh
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. o<f#Zi
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able J=OWXL!<a
to achieve your financial goal eventually. h]w5N2$}?
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I MF}}o0P
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." @:M ?Re`L
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the q Uu vM
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors xtN=?WjVe0
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? @XSxo UF\
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property q@6Je(H
for long term investment is not a bad idea. {-'S#04
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to i4p2]Nr
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persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you E{#Y=
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that $mF(6< w
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once n@e[5f9 ?x
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and 1}#RUqFrvS
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM .o_?n.H'&
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest NW*qw q
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or d$O)k+j
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that "?Mf%u1R
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) NU#rv%p
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too D,)^l@U P
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or B;6N.X(K
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
