Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more 6YLj^w] %
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between 2"kL dD
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. 3<Zq ]jk?n
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able N~d ?WD\^
to achieve your financial goal eventually. _A5e{Gb
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ?{|q5n
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." _jI,)sr4ic
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the +[A QU c
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors z Rl3KjET
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? 4Lh!8g=/
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property RLynE V;]
for long term investment is not a bad idea. lhz{1P]s
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to J^nBdofP
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you E$:*NSXj
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that V>)OpvoT#
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ]kG"ubHV?h
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and o"Euwh!!
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM ^ft>@ =K(|
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest c~$)UND^
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or m!4ndO;0vh
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that R{3N& C
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) @+M
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too S)k*?dQ##R
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or X_ cV%#
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
