Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more |+"<wEK I
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between 4qphA9i1
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. I.WvLLK2
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. -0d0t!
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I .\\DKh%
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." x5|I
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the ^Xuvy{TkPH
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors F G PB:
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? 9"@\s$
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And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property [8.c8-lZ^
for long term investment is not a bad idea. +cD<:"L'g
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to \6S7T$$ 1m
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you dl.N.P7}4
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that 6 +Sxr
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once a_[Eh f E
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and }^4Xv^dW>g
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM Kc!} `Pm
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest $Ad
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and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or B p*K]3_
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that ,oORW/0iS
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) H ;7(}:.
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too F;>V>" edl
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 8J
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
