Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more b
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between j* `!o/=LI
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. S : uEK
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able $I36>
to achieve your financial goal eventually. N6[^62
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I P0(~~z&%[
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." Umt ia~x=&
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the @R&D["!
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors IpXhb[UZ?
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? }x1IFTa!
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property o)=VPUe
for long term investment is not a bad idea. z}tp 0~C
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to =*}Mymhk(
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you @<=#i
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that K-C,+
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house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 0Ida]H
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and tuU XW5!/
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM e:D"_B
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest #jx?uS
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or 6<$|;w-OV
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 2 vN(z %p
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) ;_a oM
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too {kH^OZ^(e
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or RT"2Us]*
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
