Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more \.0^ n3y
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between IoxgjUa
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. D[4u+g?[}>
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able tR s [ YK
to achieve your financial goal eventually. q8FTi^=Kb
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I T5R-B=YWu
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." |9u OUE
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the |LRe dD7n
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors 8*W#D
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? uW=k K0E
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property
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for long term investment is not a bad idea. 6g2a[
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to tClg*A;|B
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you I& 2c&yO
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that gT 3_RUF
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once ;!=G
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and ' KP@W9j
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM p#&h=,W}
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest ,`|3KE9
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or 4;w;'3zq
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 69PE9z z
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) l}a)ZeR1
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too V_R@o3kv;
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or u __9Z:+
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
