Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more Ie.
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of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between 05FGfnq.8
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. b aII
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As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able W7! gD
to achieve your financial goal eventually. | z=`Ur@)
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I J#Hh4Kc
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ?/3wO/7[
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the Jh
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house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors QLO;D)fC
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? "frZ%mv
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property JKM(fX+
for long term investment is not a bad idea. ,w#lUg p
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to "?3=FBp&
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you R|\eBnfI
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that UGO;5!
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 'OtT q8G
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and d,(y$V+
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM
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and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest -`k>(\Q< d
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or G)? *BH
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that bu _ @>`S
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) b}R_@_<u
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too s0?'mC+p
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or N ^ rpP q
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
