Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more mJ'Q9x"
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between \Zn% r&(
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. -a[[1
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able ak SUk)}e
to achieve your financial goal eventually. IIZu&iZo
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I \zdY$3z
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." tny^ sG/'
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the 8C[W;& Y=
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors \! *3bR
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? he
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And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property s(0S)l<
for long term investment is not a bad idea. y ~PW_,
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to b u2@~
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you @4O;dFOQ)
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that )=k8W9i8b
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once _, " ?R]MO
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and n#US4&uT4A
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM Y =NXfTc
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest >V01
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and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or #Epx'$9
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that Wl29xY}`{!
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) !,SGKLs.m
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too @W_=Z0 ]
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or p{V_}:|=
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
