Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more <!&nyuSz
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between Iq_cs
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. El0| .dW
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able Y-n* K'
to achieve your financial goal eventually. &oYX093di
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ;,Sl+)@h
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." Qm,| 'y:Tg
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the (I, PC*:
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors D(}v`q{Y
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? ^o|igyS9
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property 8 ;.WX
for long term investment is not a bad idea. aD3'g c,l
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to Bfaj4i ;_
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you ~tDV{ml
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that w*Sl
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once "sf8~P9qy
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and ]m(Uv8/6
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM 52K3N^RgR
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest ;04
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and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or Z KnEg2a
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that >t?;*K\x"
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) UBi0
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too (C ,PG jd
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or ]gkI:scPA
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
