Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more fR;_6?p*B
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between TN_$E&69I
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. O!Cu.9}
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able z6r/
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to achieve your financial goal eventually. eE_X
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I 0!
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the {
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house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors <&Xq`i/(
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? ,w>?N\w!}
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property 7V``f:#d
for long term investment is not a bad idea. Dx)XC?'xO
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to ,]qX_`qF
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you m6<0 hP
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that Z-!T(: E]
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once !_!b \
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and %-|q3 ^s
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM ; O0rt1
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest x}j41E}
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or S ylsp%A
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that DCUq.q)
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) Y &+/[ [
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too _\;#
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much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or TBT*j&!L
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
