Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more w9675 D+
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between V/
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. Q096M 0m
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able v {) 8QF]
to achieve your financial goal eventually. h !?rk|
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I pd-I^Q3-
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." ~>Xq R/v
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the zBc |gx
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors N 1hj[G[H"
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? eU\XAN#@
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property !, R=6b$E5
for long term investment is not a bad idea. lYS*{i1^ '
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to >fzFNcO*
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you o8~<t]Ejw
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that ijgm-1ECk3
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once " -S@R=bi
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and \LM.>vJ
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM r?/!VO-*N
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest p3 V?n[/}
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or KPA.5, a i
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that fJ&\Z9zY
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) (U@$gkUx}G
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too F<DXPToX%
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or M2I*_pI
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
