Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more hdDI%3vk3
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between a +Qj[pS
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. VQJ5 $4a&
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able z&G3 &?Z
to achieve your financial goal eventually. Qz90 mb
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I oM7-1O
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it."
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the Y O4ppL~xe
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors -Y ,Ibq
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to ;iI2K/ 3
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you $ R}iL
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that FQ&VM
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house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once J x[e{o)o
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and ^\t">NJ^
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM ;@\J scNJ|
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest GnHf9
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and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or ) W7H{#
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that ll^O+>1dO
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) BHBR_7
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too o~N-x*
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or 8pKPbi;(2
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
