Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more nRq P_*]
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between !gLJB p
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. rwUhNth-Qh
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able Z"Hq{?l9
to achieve your financial goal eventually. O}cfb 4"
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I
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agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." |tI{MztJ"c
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the W`_Wi*z4
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors c/bT5TIEWs
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? ^Ff fc @=
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property 1_LKqBgo
for long term investment is not a bad idea. p%>!1_'(
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to ?^!J:D?
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you T<7}IH$6xE
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that gsQn@(;
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once 8q9 ^
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and E{JTy{z-
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM W
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and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest 1@~%LV
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or {)r[?%FMgV
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that e[T3,2C
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) :%mls Nw
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too
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much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or D&mPYxXL
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
