Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more Z @d(0 z
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between [44C`x[8M+
you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. 71(C@/J
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able g+ P
to achieve your financial goal eventually. RhQ[hI
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I w4%yCp[,
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." 3qNLosm#M
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the
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house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors Gr}lr gP S
each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? ,"U_oa3
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property c3]X#Qa#m$
for long term investment is not a bad idea. @kmOz (
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to Exu >%
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you @M_p3[c\
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that M# a1ev
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once `iT{H]po
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and
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deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM d@aPhzLu
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest Yv ZcG3@c3
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or N_^s;Qj
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that 7w?V0pLwn8
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) 2?./S)x)
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too yhzZ[vw7k
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or <yw(7
not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
