Cigar DD, give you my fair and hearty opinion, I like your writing and wish to read more mS%4
of it. Because of this, the least thing for me to see is the broken relationship between z
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you and your MM. One thing I can be sure is that you won't live in poverty for long. (%^C}`|EA
As long as you have the motivation to improve your financial situation, you will be able C. .| O
to achieve your financial goal eventually. >!fTWdD^
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The "Rich dad, Poor dad" serial of books are good to read. There is one main idea I ;~F* 2)
agree the most "Don't say you can't afford it, ask yourself how you can afford it." W?
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One thing I don't understand and wish you can think it again, why you insist selling the WL+EpNKSf
house your MM purchased? Do you know there are thousands of foreign investors T
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each year from all of the world especially the USA to invest in China's real estate? dp W`e>o
And the RMB is still in appreciation, the trend will go on for a while. Keep the property Id?-Og2i V
for long term investment is not a bad idea. 3 ~sV-
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If you are not happy that the house is under your MM's Mom's name, you can try to > )4~,-;k
persuade your MM to add her name on it, so the house will be indirectly owned by you ) 8xbc&M
as well after your marriage. As to the request that you pay off the mortgage for that r*{.|>me
house, if you have that much money, you just don't feel comfortable to pay it at once jZ~girA
how about asking your MM to open a joint account in both of you/MM's names and [r2 V+b.C
deposit the money into it? By doing this, you can show your highest sincerity to MM k)+{Y v*
and extend the solid proof that you are not out of money. You can earn the interest g3ukx$Q{>
and when the RMB appreciates to a certain level, you can either sell the house or =d;a1AO{&
close the joint account and exchange the money back to whatever currency at that /[/L%;a'p
time. (Sigapore dollar or Hong Kong dollar or USA dollar) )v(rEY
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Anyway, keep your relationship with your MM, I don't think you should explore too (cVIjo+::
much on why her family ask this or ask that, honestly ask yourself, if you love her or rO}1E<g
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not. And DO keep on your writing, you have the talent.
